Upload your parenting plan. Get plain-English answers, log every violation, and respond to any message — calmly.
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“I used to spend hours spiraling after every message. Now I paste it in, see exactly what he did, and respond calmly in five minutes. My kids see a different version of me now.”
The difference
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How it works
PDF, photo, or text. We parse every clause and translate it into plain English automatically.
"Can I take them to Florida?" Get the answer with the clause cited. Log violations in 10 seconds.
Paste what they sent. Get a court-safe response in seconds — and a name for what they just did.
What you get
Upload your parenting plan and ask any question. You get the answer with the exact clause cited — in plain English. No guessing. No lawyer call needed.
Log what happened in 10 seconds. Every entry is timestamped, linked to the violated clause, and formatted for court. Show up to every hearing with months of evidence.
Paste what they sent. We name the tactic — DARVO, guilt-shifting, stonewalling — and write your response. Calm. Clear. Court-safe.
“Fine, take them, but don't expect me to cover anything when your poor planning causes problems. You always do this.”
“Per our parenting plan, the schedule change falls within my parenting time. I'll follow the agreed pickup procedures. Please confirm the handoff time.”
Write the message you actually want to send — every unfiltered word. Feel the release of saying it all. Then see what a responsible co-parent would say back. The gratitude, the acknowledgment, the respect you deserve — written out like they finally meant it.
I can't believe you're doing this again. Every time I try to work with you, you make it about you. The kids see this. I'm completely exhausted and you don't care at all...
“I see how hard you're working for our kids. You've been patient with things you didn't have to be patient with. Thank you for not giving up on doing this right — they are so lucky to have you.”
Holiday requests often follow a pattern of guilt-shifting in the 2 weeks prior. You've seen this 3 years running.
“You didn't retaliate. You held the line. That is what protecting your kids looks like.”
Patterns analyzes your history over time — identifying exactly what tactics your co-parent uses, flagging what tends to escalate, and helping you see what's coming before it hits. So you can defuse situations before they start.
Your progress
This situation is hard. We don't just track the violations. We track your wins — every calm response, every day you didn't spiral, every exchange you handled with grace.
Real people
“My attorney told me to keep records. RTO is how I actually do it. When we went back to court I had 14 months of documented incidents. It changed everything.”
“Seeing 'DARVO' on screen for the first time — with a definition — made me cry. I wasn't crazy. There was a name for it.”
“I used to spiral for hours after every message. Now I paste it in and I'm done in 5 minutes. I got my evenings back.”
“I finally stopped guessing what I was allowed to do. I just ask RTO. Every answer comes with the exact section. My ex can't gaslight me anymore.”
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FAQ
No — and we're upfront about that. RTO helps you understand what your order says and build a documented record. It's not a substitute for an attorney. But your attorney will love what you bring them.
Yes. Everything you upload is encrypted. We never share your data with anyone — not your ex, not their attorney, not courts.
Yes. Search your order for the right clause, then get a calm, court-safe message drafted for your exact situation — so you never have to guess what to say or how to say it.
RTO helps you build organized, timestamped records — not legal documents. Attorneys consistently tell us their clients who use RTO come better prepared and with cleaner documentation.
There's nothing to hide. RTO helps you stay calm, document accurately, and respond clearly. That's exactly what you should be doing.
Your clients will show up with organized, timestamped records. Every session starts further ahead.
Pricing
Most people start on free and never need more. When things escalate, Pro is there.
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